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26. FOPO & The Let Them Theory: Breaking Free from Fear of Others' Opinions

Kandy Duns Episode 26

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Have you ever held yourself back because of what others might think? That’s FOPO—Fear of Other People’s Opinions—keeping you stuck in self-doubt, overthinking, and people-pleasing. But what if the key to freedom was simple?

Enter The Let Them Theory. Instead of exhausting yourself trying to control how others perceive you, what if you just… let them? Let them misunderstand. Let them judge. Let them walk away. And most importantly—let yourself live.

In this episode, we’re breaking down FOPO, exploring how The Let Them Theory can be a game-changer, and sharing how to shift from fear to freedom. If you’ve ever struggled with worrying about what others think, this episode is for you.

Special Invitation:  I’m hosting a 6-week Women’s Circle where we’ll go even deeper into this work—learning how to actually live the Let Them / Let Me Theory, step by step. If you’re ready to stop twisting yourself into knots trying to please everyone else and finally step into your own power, come join us. This Women's Circle is Starting April 15, we’ll meet Tuesday evenings from 5-6 PM PST. You'll find this experience to be safe, supportive, and with opportunities to build lasting connections with others. 

Ready to say YES to YOU? Sign up here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=30573795&appointmentType=75587704



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