Selfless to Self-YES: Embracing the Art of Self-Love, Self-Care, and Authenticity
Welcome to Selfless to Self-YES: Embracing the Art of Self-Love, Self-Care, and Authenticity, the podcast that guides you on a transformative journey from selflessness to self-empowerment.
Are you tired of constantly putting others before yourself? Are you ready to shift from exhaustion and overwhelm to reconnecting with your sense of self and prioritizing your own needs? In each episode, we explore the essential tools and mindset shifts needed to embrace self-love, self-care, and living authentically. It’s time to break free from the societal pressures that tell you to put yourself last. Whether you’re seeking to nurture your mental health, create balance in your life, or simply learn to love who you truly are, this podcast is your go-to resource for inspiration and actionable advice.
Join me for conversations that encourage you to prioritize yourself, rediscover your worth, and confidently say “Yes” to the life you deserve.
Meet your host, Kandy Duns, former People Pleasing, Overachieving, Perfectionist. After spending most of her life putting her needs last, Kandy found herself completely burned out, leading to what she refers to as the breakdown she needed to reveal just how broken she was. Realizing she could no longer pour from an empty cup, and that she really had no idea who she was, Kandy learned to embrace the power of self-love and self-care, transforming her life. Kandy is an RN, Certified Hypnotherapist, and Self-Love and Self-Care Advocate. Join Kandy every other week as she shares her journey and expertise. Through personal stories and expert insights, she guides listeners from surviving to thriving, burnout to bliss, and from being selfless to embracing SELF-YES!
If you are a woman yearning to reconnect with yourself and prioritize your needs, this podcast is for you. For personalized guidance, contact her at kandy@selflesstoselfyes.com.
Website: selflesstoselfyes.com
Selfless to Self-YES: Embracing the Art of Self-Love, Self-Care, and Authenticity
25. Are You Too Nice? The Truth About People-Pleasing & Boundaries
Have you ever said “yes” when you wanted to say “no” just to avoid conflict? In this episode of Selfless to Self-YES, we’re diving deep into the difference between being nice and being kind—and why always trying to be "nice" can actually hurt you.
I share a personal story about a family vacation gone wrong, all because I felt pressured to be the nice person. Spoiler alert: it did not end well. But through that experience, I learned a powerful lesson about people-pleasing, boundaries, and the cost of ignoring my own needs.
Tune in as we explore:
✅ The hidden dangers of being "too nice"
✅ Why kindness is more powerful than niceness
✅ How people-pleasing affects your authenticity
✅ Practical steps to break free from the “nice” trap
If you've ever felt drained from constantly accommodating others, this episode is for you. It’s time to trade nice for authentic and start honoring yourself!
🎧 Listen now and take your first step toward unapologetic authenticity!
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Email: kandy@selflesstoselfyes.com
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